Guys, do you need help meeting women? I just started a thread about this.
You need to change your image of you in the relationships department. Do the imaging and affirmations portion that I subscribed. Right now you're very negative in this one area of your life when the reality is, you have everything it takes to be VERY successful.
By the way, being in your mid30s is not old at all. My friends who are in their early 40s get hit on then most anyone I know. It's all about how you look and carry yourself.