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Originally Posted by mattpd  Also, I've noticed that a switch occurs when you have sex with a woman. So women will tend to date guys who are good at getting them into bed, because its almost as if when sex happens there is a bond for women, and they get attached on some level. This doesn't really occur so much for men. |
You've pretty much described in your post how men are logically minded and how women are emotionally minded - that is the core difference between the sexes.
You have described how men think about it, sex is just sex, bing, bang, boom, you're in & out of there, I had fun, it was pleasurable, see you later 'gator. On the logical side (how men tend to think), it's just sex - that's it.
Women who date men and have sex with them, trust men enough to share that special part of them, that's the emotional component to women and yes women get attached to men in that process - being physically intimate with someone requires trust that you don't get hurt, especially on the women's part - they want to feel safe & comfortable during this process otherwise why would they do it? When you can trust someone enough to have physical intimacy with them for the first time and then repeatedly afterwards, that trust fosters the emotional connection. It leads to other thought processes, ie. sex sometimes leads to procreation, continuation of the species, families, etc. That's the subconscious component in women - there's nothing wrong with that, we're all here today because of that thought process.
If women didn't have this component to them (I wouldn't say it's a bad thing either, i think it's a good thing), women would be having sex with every man on the planet without a care in the world and not worry about getting pregnant, having kids without having families, etc. That kind of thought process would probably affect other areas of life as well.