Do you love him? Can you love him unconditionally? If you can, there is no question.
Love him with your heart wide open and don't let society or other people dictate what will or will not "hurt" you. Hurt is only a story in your mind. If he meets other women, talks to them even has sex with them, it won't matter unless you let the story in your mind define it as "wrong" and "hurtful."
Choose to be happy regardless of the circumstances that he chooses.
Choose to love him even during a time that he is trying to redefine himself.
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