It doesn't matter that much wat you say. The girl will first look how you come across, are you confident, nervous, playfull, angry etc...? Thats why two people can say exactly the same thing and one will have a good and another a bad one. If you are trying to impress her by saying something really witty, then there is a good chance you can come across needy and this will turn her of. If you say something you like yourself then this will work for you, for example; somebody gave me a line once as a a game (i walked up to a girl and said: excuse me can you show me the way to a pharmacie because i've got gas, --putting my hands on my stomach, frowning my face--) this line is horrible but it worked very well. Why?? Because i was chuckling inside myself when i walked up to the girl and therefore i came of good dispite the horrible line. So all lines above will work, depending on how you say them (voice tone, body language etc...), but you don't want to focus on that because it will make you selfconscious. So use (or invent) the line you like and focus on having some fun and let her decide if she wants to join in or not. If you comment on the surroundings or ask a question this can work also but you have to transition directly into something else otherwise you end up having a boring conversation (remember all the nice weather conversations in your life).
Wheter or not you touch a girl the first time has nothing to do with being wrong. It has everything to do with morals. Are these morals of your own finding or are they put on you by society (parents, the media, friends, etc...)? If you where born in a muslim country you more then likely had different morals about male/female interaction. Morals, then, can be a personal choice or something you accept by society.
Could it be possible that if you touch a girl the first time you see each other you both like it? Is this wrong? Is it wrong to have sex the first night with a girl, is it then somehow impossible to have a long term relationship? If you come from a place of love and appreciation then you don't need all those rules to tell you how to act or not to act.
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