I'm happy for you too. Having a lot of questions about marriage lately, as being close to someone going through a lot of pain in this area, having been recently divorced.
As I've never been married, I can't say much about it. I do know that if I found the right person to share my life with, I would do it. I would have to be deeply in love with them, and also objectively determine them to be a 'good person', a man of integrity, honesty, stability, intelligence, kindness, humor, perception, caring, oh and be adaptable, so we could grow together.
I think there's a lot to be said for commitment, having another human being to truly depend on in this life, through all the changes, and to share that with someone as well.
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