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Originally Posted by Angela  Why do you insist that her having a friend coming to visit and not telling you about it is a "betrayal"? She does not owe you that information, and unless you and she have agreed to an exclusive relationship, it's not your concern. She's not betraying you unless you create it as betrayal. |
Listen to the word of wisdom. As far as I can see, you're not exactly in a relationship. Actually unless you are regularly sleeping with her, thus qualifying the relation as a boyfriend/girlfriend, you can't say a thing. As a matter of fact, she might be using you for emotional issues. Don't enter in that game.
Now if you really like her, just accept you're not the boyfriend yet. And even if you were, she has a perfect right to see her ex. It doesn't mean they'll sleep with each other. They just had an intimate relationship and realized that they might not fit together. Stop acting as if you needed her approval. Stop acting jealous too at this stage, as she'll think you have issues. When she comes, organize a fun week-end. If a relationship sprouts, so be it. If it doesn't, it's fine too : there are other girls.