Quote:
Originally Posted by marklang500  You are asking for fakeness. |
To not bluntly say what's on your mind does not equal to being fake. There's gotta be something better to say than a woman's shoe or hair. There are plenty of "real" and fun things you can say. Praising appearance is a old line, and used by men with solely sexual intentions. A few bad apples like that ruined the entire reputation of men who compliment upon sincerity and respect. So I guess personally I've raised my standards on first time conversations when men approach. Like my moles? Well, okay. It's really just -okay-. It's not that thrilling, refreshing and fun. Why don't you tell me something new? I don't need to know how good I am or how good you are in apparent ways.
I can't say that complimenting appearance isn't fun a thing to do. It's hard to define fun too. If the vibe is there, it is there. Two man may approach me and say "Buy me a drink!" and immediately project very different impressions. Maybe it'll be more fun if someone else touches my moles upon first time meeting, although the chance that I'd really think it's fun is slim.
