Tell her to come this weekend and just do something fun. Once expectations come into the mix it becomes a whole different ballgame. It is not easy to let go of expectations,desire fear and lust.... but it can be done. In my opinion all you have in the present with this woman is a friendship.What happens next is anyones guess and will be determined by your next few interactions. I certainly know how hard it is when you really like someone and you spend some time wondering what the other person is doing. At that point I have found it very instructive to concentrate on what you are doing and let them be. If she wants to be with you she will be with you. Hope this helps..G
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