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Here is "Dress the Part"
1. DRESS THE PART
To me, this is one of the most important keys to success with women and an area that a lot of guys fail dismally in. If you go to a club and look around, the majority of guys dress like ****. I don't think they do this intentionally, they just haven't been taught how to dress well. There will be a few here and there that dress nice but for the most part, most guys dress pretty crappy. The majority of guys were a stereotypical outfit such as a black button up shirt and blue jeans or worse, black button up shirt and black slacks. If you are wearing that to the club, throw that **** away. You’re like a walking shadow moving around the club in that outfit. Plus, there will be at least 30 other guys dressed like you and there is nothing about that outfit that sticks out. If you HAVE to wear that outfit, do something different with it. Roll up the sleeves, wear a nice watch, hat or bracelet, dress it up! Any clothes you wear should accentuate you. They should draw attention to you in a positive light and have you feeling good and confident.
Now, how do you go about dressing nice? Let’s say you are a guy who has no fashion skills. You might go to a club in slacks and a dress shirt that you would normally wear to work as you have no idea how to dress.
Here is a simple plan that should work like a charm. If you have absolutely no fashion sense, walk into any nice clothing store; Nordstrom, Guess, Diesel, Bloomingdale’s, etc. and tell the person working there that you are going to a club, want to look good, are not used to dressing trendy, and would like their help in picking something out. This is these people’s job! They’ll typically find you a great outfit or outfits in minutes and you can be assured that what you are wearing to the club is going to look good.
I remember the first time I did this. Prior to that I knew I dressed good but I wanted clothes that would really turn women’s heads. I ended up going to a few different stores and asking the women that worked there to help me find something. The result was that I ended up dressing nicer then I ever had prior to that and to this day dress even nicer then I did back then. Women almost always compliment me on how I look when I go out and this even happened on a date last week. Both the girl I was on a date with and another girl that I bumped into both complimented me on how good I looked.
Now, some of you guys might be saying that you don’t want to spend this time, effort, or money on clothes. Or you might think it is gay or sissyish to dress trendy. To that I would say, do you want a gorgeous woman or not? Let’s say you were interviewing at an incredible company, one that where if you were to land the job, it would change your whole life. Would you show up to the interview dressed like ♥♥♥♥? Of course not! You’d want to look your best. As there are a million other people who might have just as much knowledge as you, you’d want every advantage possible to succeed.
Here is a better example, you’re at a club, and there are a million men there for women to check out. Which one do you think she is going to be attracted to? The trendy nice dressed guy or the guy dressed like a slob? Of course the trendy guy. Also, when you dress nice it can be an easy way to initiate talking with women. As you’re dressed nice, you can compliment them on their dress, or earrings, or necklace (have used this many times before), and this becomes a talking point and conversation starter. Also the woman will know you’re being sincere as you’re dressed nice as well.
When you wear nice clothes you feel more confident and look better. This leads women to become attracted to you faster and easier which in turn builds up your confidence even more which causes women to become even more attracted to you. It’s a beautiful cycle that works in your favor.
So dress the part!!! By the way, I am not saying spend a million dollars on dressing nice but I do believe you should have at least two flawless outfits in your closet. By flawless I mean two outfits that are from head to toe perfect. When you put them on you know that you look great. The make-up of these outfits includes but is not limited to; shoes, jeans or pants, shirt, watch or bracelet, and anything else you would like to add. Some people might say “Well I don’t have the money for that”. Think about this, if you were to buy one nice outfit a month, you would after 6 months have 6 great outfits.
For an example of dressing nice you can go to
Diesel Online Store - Home I am in no way affiliated with Diesel, I am just giving you an example in case you are not sure what dressing nice means.
EXERCISE:
You are to go to 3 upscale department stores; Nordstrom’s, Guess, Diesel, Saks Fifth Avenue, Neiman Marcus, Lucky, Armani, whatever suits your style, and ask the person working in their men’s clothing section to help you find one good outfit for going out. You don’t have to buy the outfit, I just simply want you to know what dressing nice entails. You can be honest with the salesperson that you would just like to see what they would recommend.
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