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Originally Posted by funchy Some good advice. Thanks for posting.
And as a woman myself, I just wanted to add:
Don't over-think things. Just be yourself.
Be a good listener! Act interested and ask questions, even if she's talking
about lipstick or Desperate Housewives.  Some days I feel like I'd do anything just for someone to ask me about my day.
Put yourself in places that you can meet women easily. Join an organization, do volunteer work, take night classes for fun, or attend local events. It's so hard to meet people other than at work once you're out of school.
And don't be shy. How will she know you're interested if you never let it on? It doesn't have to be a big scary thing. Just casually ask her out on a date. Or if you don't know each other well, pick someting informal like coffee and pie. |
Funchy!
Thank you for chiming in. It is great to hear a woman's advice on things.
I think you're spot on about everything that you said. For the guys reading this, just relax and be yourself. It's okay, good and normal to be interested and as Funchy said. go and approach. Make it like it's just like anything else you would be doing.
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Very constructive advice!
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Thanks Mewwy!