Sometimes a sudden breakup of a long-term relationship is almost like a grieving process. I could tell you that in time you will feel much better and the pain will fade, but you may not believe me right now.
I enjoyed your web site. It's refreshing to see such open honestly. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your meditation approach. I need to try that more often.
Hang in there! Things will improve. It's wonderful you're using this as a learning opportunity to better yourself. Just don't get caught up in the blame cycle. Sometimes things just happen. Even if you did everything right and were Mr Perfect, it might not have mattered.
May I suggest that the two of you go to a counselor together. The goal may not be to get you back together, but it's a journey of self discovery.
Keep busy. This way you don't have time to dwell on the "whys" and the "what ifs".
I'm sorry I can't do more to make you feel better. I know that you will sort all this out. You seem like a really good person. Things will work out for you.
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