Oh no, that's not what I was getting at. Her question was "what if she isn't impressed" and my answer is: then it won't work out.
But not because he didn't impress her, but because they were'nt on the same wavelength. I used quoation marks around those things to show how the two points of view clash. They were'nt my words, but the words of the two people involved. I don't think there is anything wrong with either one of them. But they clash.
I did, however, say that I think it is a bad idea for men and women both to get into the mindset that "the man needs to impress the woman". That causes some men to be fake. And deep down I don't think women really want that. The bad part is, they DO want to be impressed. They just want to be impressed with who the man REALLY is, not by some fake sh|t.
If a man is being himself, and he makes a witty banter, and she runs for the hills, then it is a good thing, because she isn't into that kind of guy. If he is being fake, and he makes a witty banter, and she runs for the hills, then she just avoided a guy who isn't true to himself, and he cheated himself out of possibly meeting someone that would like him for who he is.
Different women will run for the hills for different reasons. It's best to be yourself and not chance fakeness ruining what could be a great relationship. But it is great to find your own sense of humor and let it shine. Life is serious enough as it is. Have fun with relationships.
My lines are funny to me, and I like being funny alot. I throw lines like that on my wife to this day. It's fun. And it's me.
