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Originally Posted by marklang500  I am trying to reverse the spiral now. I am as up beat and helpful at home as possible, my sex life is turning around. Now I am really trying to get my work habits back up to par (literally). I'm hoping my self-esteem will come up eventually. Clearly from the guilt I felt over the bad call this weekend, my self-esteem isn't there yet. |
I'm glad things are improving at home with you & your wife, seriously it makes me very happy to hear it - it gives hope to alot of men who are in similar situations.
One word I'll change in the above quote, I am
trying, just change that to I am reversing the spiral now. Don't say try, don't use try, don't think about trying. Trying is ok in a limited sense but trying also implies failure along the way. I'll try but I'm probably going to screw up & fail again - on both a conscious and subconscious level, it means failure.
You are succeeding. When a person does something instead of trying something, they say, I'm going to do this, even if I fall down a thousand times along the way, the 1001st I will succeed because I am doing this, no matter what.
Change the lingo, change the perspective and you end up changing the direction.
Believe in yourself bro, you will succeed!
