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What if a girl simply isn't impressed by you?
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(I shouldn't answer for Plato, but I have to say this)
It's not about impressing a girl. That's where most guys fail. They "try" to impress the girl. That immediately sends the message that she is better than me, and I'm going to work at keeping her interested.
What it is really about is having fun. And if a girl can have fun, then the sparks fly.
If, on the other hand, the girl chooses not to have fun, but instead take the view that "he is trying to impress me", then the girl will "run for the hills", and the guy won't mind either because she showed him that she can't "vibe with or banter in a fun way". It's all for the best.
So if the sparks don't fly, then they don't fly. It doesn't mean that the guy "did it wrong". It just means that the girl isn't on the same wavelength. So it's all for the better that it doesn't work out right from the beginning.
I do want to say that girls who are looking for a guy that impresses them will be sorely disapointed in thier options! It's better for guys to be themselves and get rejected than it is to put up a fake front in order to impress and them have their true colors show up later.
Sorry to steal Plato!