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Originally Posted by 172  I'm not necessarily looking to change my desire for a monogamous relationship, but I do wonder if it's realistic? |
I do think it is realistic. It doesn't mean it is easy to find, but you have the right to desire monogamy, or anything else.
I think it has a lot to do with maturity level. I have a "friend," who recently attested to breaking up with his girlfriend, because he had been with her for too long.
It caused me to lose some respect for him (among other reasons).
Anyway, I think you should talk to him before jumping to any conclusions. Confront him (without being angry), and if he denies it, tell him about whatever evidence you have. Then you can choose what to do next, depending on his response and your reaction to it.
I will say though I have several friends who are in relationships and have not cheated (to my knowledge, of course).