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Originally Posted by Acting Like Godot  Greetings.
I am a man and I have never cheated. In my entire life, I have had sex with only one woman and I believe she has only had sex with one person (me).
We have known each other for 14 years; had a platonic relationship for the first three of those 14 years, and have been married for the last eight of those 14 years. We have two children and are trying to decide whether to have a 3rd.
As far as relationships are concerned, I am quite traditional & conservative and I do not entertain any thoughts whatsoever of cheating.
So men like me may be rare, but we do exist.  |
That sounds so beautiful.
And, tragic at the same time
"men like me may be rare". I sure hope not. But, what if what you say is true? What does that say about the entire institution of monogamy as a social practice? If you attest yourself that men like you are rare, that is not encouraging for people who still want and expect a monogamous relationship.
I'm not necessarily looking to change my desire for a monogamous relationship, but I do wonder if it's realistic?