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A little off topic, but I feel it's important: One of my own biggest personal breakthroughs In Real Life has been to STOP bragging on myself, even the subtle stuff, even if it's all true. In real life, I'm more self-deprecating than anything. Anyhow, it's amazing how well other people, both men and women (but in different ways), respond when you stop making them feel bad about themselves.
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The question is whether you are making them feel bad or whether you are inspiring with sharing a positive story with them.
I think it a much better choice to feel inspired when you read about someones success.
It's a totally different approach when you ask yourself: "How do I inspire people?"
Then when you ask yourself: "How can I make other people see myself favorable?"
I think that fundamentally the forum would work better if people would think more about the first question than the second question.