[Adam]

Mod Voice: I'm closing this thread for a short time to let tempers cool off. It seems that some people are feeling like they are not being understood clearly, which leads to defensiveness. Before communications break down further, I would like everyone who has interest in this thread to take this time to evaluate what each other is trying to say, rather than concentrating on what you interpret the tone of their posts to be.

Nobody is in trouble... This is not an 'official' warning. I just feel like we could all use a short breather to let ourselves calm down and weigh each other's points before we come back for some healthy and constructive debate. Everybody is making good points, this is just a preventive measure to make certain that the good points aren't clouded by heat-of-the-moment replies.