This is a cool thread. I no longer even consider it 'subjective reality' -- what you're beginning to see is just reality.
I'm not claiming to be a guru about this, but lately I've had moments where I can actually feel connected to every single thing in the universe. When someone is a dick in front of me in line, I can see that he is a part of consciousness -- his impatience is mine as well. When I hear about a billionaire starting some new project on TV, I feel a sense of pride -- a part of consciousness (therefore, a part of ME) is pursuing a bold new project.
When you find yourself in this state, manifestations become so easy because you're no longer looking at it from the point of view of a person trying to bring something toward them. When you're in that limited state, you're basically 'begging' and hoping that a certain strategy will bring you something new.
When you experience what you're talking about, it's totally different. It's all you and you're just deciding in that moment -- just for fun -- to interact with yourself in a new way.
Thoughts on this? I write this now completely confident in what I'm saying; by later tonight I'll probably be back in a self-centered state.