Well, i think family can be a reflection on you. You might suddenly notice it in them because you suddenly had a differnt perspective. If you lived your life as a pinky finger, you might see how your hand and arm play a roll in your life, however you have to step back away from yourself to see how the pibky finger works in relationship to the whole body.
I love the powerful mindset subjective reality empowers.
I think sometimes we create (LOA, intention manifistation) that which helps us work on our weeknesses. Seeing your son being slow to move can hel you see in yourself that you might need to slow down a bit once in a while, and it might also show you how you dislike life being so fast, or that you hate it when you yourself are slow.
I was once told that what we dislike most in others is what we dislike most in ourselves. For example, i dislike it when people around me a slow.. when they walk slow, talk slow, type slow, read slow, and act like they have forever to do something or get some place. And it is true, when i have this quility myself, i get upset with myself very quickly.
No, i dont think you are wacky lol.
Understanding your kids more, and seeing the connections you have with them, can only make your connection with them stronger. I think it is great that you have started to see how interconnected your family is, and how we all help each other