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Originally Posted by Sanity Panda  I need help removing some fears.
I've noticed that alot of my conversation revolves around the whole exchange of information, but there doesn't seem to be much of the emotional exchange. Even if I'm talking about things like feelings, values etc. You could say I chat in a serious manner...
I'm avoiding people because I can't cope with the idea that I'm rather bland when it comes to chatting. This belief is reinforced when conversations don't seem to flow, when I'm lacking material from the other person to work on or when they don't seem interested in asking me questions. It'd just be an information exchange.
I also get the impression that it's mostly my fault for not having a flowing conversation. I'm failing to engage the other member in an emotional way that makes people want to talk. Joy, laughter and happiness. |
Hey Sanity Panda
I'm not sure I get your post. What is the problem? Do you want others to talk more to you? Do you want to do more talking yourself? Do you want more conversations with people or do you want other conversations (and if so, what kind of conversations would you like?)
I know it's a lot of questions, but perhaps it will clarify the problem
Best wishes