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Old 09-25-2008, 04:53 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Cron View Post
That is a good point about wording. "Dislike" and "hate" are your words, they are words that I used. I used the phrase "doing things they don't feel like doing".

Maybe I get strong reactions to my idea, because of the truth value in it? People who haven't accepted that there isn't a magic trick for feeling like doing everything they have to do, all the time might feel threatened?
When others vehemently disagree with you, instead of saying "I'm right." in your head say "How can I see what they see to understand them?" My point is, once you accept doing something, you don't think about your "dislike" or "hate" or "don't feel like doing" feelings, you just do it. And you forget about likes and dislikes. It doesn't matter anymore because you've accepted it and don't FEEL that way anymore.
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