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Dannyboy1 · 09-25-2008, 04:22 PM

For you, this perspective may be the way you make yourself do things, but it is not the only perspective. Not everyone who succeeds feels like they have to do things they don't like to get what they want. Can you accept that? Some people find a way to like everything that gets them where they want to be. Even if you "dislike" doing something, you can't do it and hate it at the same time. If you did it wouldn't get done right, or at least it wouldn't get done the best it could be done. What really happens is they see something they don't want to do, but they accept it and do it. When you accept it, everything changes because you don't hate it. There's no point in hating something once you've accepted it. People who do things they dislike rarely succeed and are usually miserable. So, maybe it's just your wording that's making people counter your statement?

09-25-2008, 04:22 PM	#13 (permalink)
Dannyboy1 Banned Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: New York Posts: 1,246	Cron For you, this perspective may be the way you make yourself do things, but it is not the only perspective. Not everyone who succeeds feels like they have to do things they don't like to get what they want. Can you accept that? Some people find a way to like everything that gets them where they want to be. Even if you "dislike" doing something, you can't do it and hate it at the same time. If you did it wouldn't get done right, or at least it wouldn't get done the best it could be done. What really happens is they see something they don't want to do, but they accept it and do it. When you accept it, everything changes because you don't hate it. There's no point in hating something once you've accepted it. People who do things they dislike rarely succeed and are usually miserable. So, maybe it's just your wording that's making people counter your statement?