Originally Posted by SonoranBob
In any case, I see nothing wrong with my fundamental point, which is that there ARE things we can't change about our lives. And an even longer list of things which may be theoretically or somewhat malleable, but arguably not worth the effort. We can disagree about what is on the list, but there IS a list.
Let's discuss, Bon. A person's level of happiness / suffering - do you think it is on the list or not?