bollenbach,
Funny i wrote a post on
How to Overcome Jealousy using the Confidence Model a few days ago. It might help you out.
Also,
Jealousy ~ How To Overcome Jealousy and Stop being Jealous might be of interest. It has an free 5 part e-course for those suffering from jealousy as well as one for those with jealous partners.
Lots of love,
Colm