striving4peace,
Wow, I must say I appreciate your honesty in sharing your feelings. It looks like you've got your thoughts under control and that's such a crucial step in creating the life you want.
I've come to realise that it's easier to be happy in a relationship when you're perfectly happy being single. So it does boil down to being comfortable with yourself, and loving yourself and life whether or not there's someone else.
It's funny that once I reached the point where I accepted myself and was happy being single, I met the most wonderful person and now I'm equally happy with him.
So you're on the right track. Live life for yourself, be your own person, and when a woman comes along, you'll have more to bring into the relationship.
All the best.
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