Maguru, why do you think all this pushes your buttons so much? Why do you think I push your buttons so much? If you simply disagree with me, you'd probably just pass over it without thinking about it too much, or maybe saying, "feh, she's wrong."
But since you get an emotional charge out of what I say, what's there and available for you out of that? You have seemed lately to be pretty calm and sure-footed in what you've shared; what is the treasure for you inside this issue of suffering? Do you think it may be something around this "feeling dismissed" concern?
It is a warrior's predicament!