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Originally Posted by lightthecandle  I have a problem of letting my looks determining whether or not I should be social or not.... let my acne problem be the judge ... |
It's time to change your story, lightthecandle; at least it is if you want to change your life.
It is not your acne that determines whether you are social or not. It's your thoughts about your acne (and all your other self-beliefs). You may have a limited power to change your skin, but you have all the power in the world to change your thoughts. Changing your thoughts is the key to getting over your self-consciousness, and having fun, loving, engaging relationships with others.
You seem to be absolutely, 100% committed to not changing your thoughts, though. You may think you want to change, but it's pretty clear that what you want and what you are absolutely married to are two entirely different and conflicting things.
When will you be ready? Or are you thinking you can get over yourself some other way?