Different people have different levels/terminology for goals:
- some people consider 'wants' to be goals
- some people make goals to meet their wants
- some people use goals as a to-do list
Now, nothing is wrong with any 1 of these 3 viewpoints. They all work, if you realize what you list of goals is actually for.
You don't want to drop everything for a goal if a goal is just a to-do item. However, you do need to step-up if your 'goal' is integral to one of your wants.
I think much of the debate in this topic is over non-precise terminology. Having wants (and realizing what they are) is obviously not 'over-rted'. Makign to-do lists may be.