You know I can tell you that all most all of your friends who have had one night stands / casual sex are often really insecure and will regret the behaviour they have done in their younger years. I work with many people who have a history of promiscuity and nobody has ever seen it as a great thing years later, although in their 20's it seemed ok. They also have to content with side effects of such behaviour:- cervical cancer, sexually transmitted diseases, low self esteem, pregnancy etc.
You have been able to decide what is right for you and now you are beginning to feel ready. I hope you find that special lady
Alison
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