Sounds like you do know what is right for you but perhaps you doubt it because society as a whole has changed it's values and now sex before marriage is perfectly normal whereas a generation or two back your values would have been in keeping with society's normal and those having sex would be shunned.
You have to do what is right for you and NOBODY can tell you that. You know that you are not alone as someone in a similar position has posted.
Sex does mature with age and it's like a good bottle of red wine - just gets better and better. Most of that is to do with self acceptance and confidence
You will know when it feels right to have sex
Alison
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