Like the dog trainer said, you have to step between her food and her, her food is: her affecting your emotions at will, so you have to stop her trying to manipulate your emotions with firmity, she will feel better knowing she cant control you.
I think she has deep problems because she is the one trying to make you feel bad, i dont know why, but you should asked if she wants you to feel bad, or if she wants you to get angry at her, or if she wants to cry, maybe she wants you to get angry at her so that she can have a good motive to be very sad and cry. There are some women that like you to be angry at them, some other like to be humiliated, wich is really weird to me but i have seen it, and if you dont do that to them then they do thinks like those things you mention, trying to push you to your limits so that they get the response they seek. Once they get what they really feel they need, then they become happy and normal again.
All this is very confusing to me and i dont understand it very well, but she is abusing your emotions, and you dont deserve it, im not saying you to dump her since that may not be needed, but you have to do something to stop her abusing you.
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