Are you talking about compromising or changing? These are not the same things at all.
Every single relationship you are in should involve compromise -- on all party's parts.
But changing for someone else, that's a different matter entirely. Certainly, bettering yourself is always a good thing, and if by being with someone else you see ways of doing that, it can only be to your benefit.
Just changing something about yourself because your partner doesn't like it is probably not a great idea.
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