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mati · 09-09-2008, 10:42 PM

hi man
I had the same experience this year, since I started this year,Im in the third year of university and I thought this will be the year that I would consolidate as a responsable, intelligent and great student but not, i failed 3 of my 6 classes, I stoped doing thing I like in order to have more time for tudy and I was getting worst, I studied as never and I got bad marks as never, I think I was depressed and extremely anxius and nervous.
even in my week of vacations before starting second semester I culdnt relax because of some problems

Now I started second semester, I did the silva method course and I think it helped me to relax more, and Im feeling alot better, I try not to be overwelmed.the thing is that I now have faringitis an it got worst and it was all for low of defenses, result of my long tension period.

So if maybe I cant give you a real advise because Im just going thru this process I can tell you if you worry too much the only thing you are doing is getting less close to your goal, and if you keep this tension you will pay the price haha sound a little scary but try to keep building your self steem step by step,doing excersice, enjoy your fmily , your friends, think about what you want in life..all this as much as you can but keep studying.

best wishes
(sorry, english not perfect)

09-09-2008, 10:42 PM	#20 (permalink)
mati Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 72	hi man I had the same experience this year, since I started this year,Im in the third year of university and I thought this will be the year that I would consolidate as a responsable, intelligent and great student but not, i failed 3 of my 6 classes, I stoped doing thing I like in order to have more time for tudy and I was getting worst, I studied as never and I got bad marks as never, I think I was depressed and extremely anxius and nervous. even in my week of vacations before starting second semester I culdnt relax because of some problems Now I started second semester, I did the silva method course and I think it helped me to relax more, and Im feeling alot better, I try not to be overwelmed.the thing is that I now have faringitis an it got worst and it was all for low of defenses, result of my long tension period. So if maybe I cant give you a real advise because Im just going thru this process I can tell you if you worry too much the only thing you are doing is getting less close to your goal, and if you keep this tension you will pay the price haha sound a little scary but try to keep building your self steem step by step,doing excersice, enjoy your fmily , your friends, think about what you want in life..all this as much as you can but keep studying. best wishes (sorry, english not perfect)