Dear Amal2008,
There are many different opinions that I could offer you regarding my thoughts of this person or of what you may have done wrong etc. However, I am not inclined to do so because there is slim-to-none chance that they will have any benefit in anybodies life whatsoever.
I am paraphrasing from
this article written as an entry in this blog about
relationships that work when I say that one of the most effective means of relationship enhancement and effective is real you-me-talk.
Now, relationship enhancement and effectiveness doesn't necessarily mean that you will be with this guy happily ever after. To me, relationship effectiveness means that in every relationship in my life, I am in a place of trying bring all of those involved in my relationships (including myself) to a place of higher understanding and fulfillment.
This can take on so many forms and variety and is not limited to specific details or actions. However, proper communication is essential in all relationships, and you-me-talk is essential for proper communication.
I would suggest being very honest about your feelings with this person. If you are confused, express that, if you are hurt, express that. If you feel that you want to keep lines of communication open, express that. Communicate with this person in such a way that you have no regrets, that you are satisfied knowing that, "I have been true to myself and have expressed my feelings completely".
Do not think about what should be or about being polite. Be polite to the extent that it does not inhibit your ability to communicate your emotions fully. Don't take it any further than that.
This is really all that you have control over. You have the power to control your words, your communication, your personal effectiveness. You DO NOT have the power to control another persons reactions, or conceptions, or impressions. For more information you can check out this article on
you-me-talk.