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but don't marry someone when you know you'll always have lingering doubts about the relationship
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I agree. This is probably the biggest problem of the whole situation. The two have been coupled together in your mind. If you go with A, the other will pop into your head during the down times. If you go with B, then A will pop into your head during the down times. That's not fair to either one of them.
If you end up marrying E, then during the down times, you brain won't really have an easy distraction focus, because at worst it will be split over A,B,C, and D. Which is MUCH better for your marriage....To have a non-specific daydream is better than a specific one.
Date more people, and don't cross the love line until you are more certain (I keep a close watch on this heart of mine). And be aloof.