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Amal2008

As far as I can see, I see some inner conflict in him.
In one side it seems that he might want to start something (dunno what) but in the other side something is stopping him.

I do not think it has to do with you.
I would think it is an inner conflict of him and he alone will have to solve it.
Give it some time and if nothing happens, drop it.

I would not worry about looking for a relationship in a hurry.
Loves does not work that way.
Give love some time.
Love will find you when you are ready.

How do you know? Because you have something who appreciates you, who makes you to GROW as a human being and allows you to DEVELOP your own potential. But before someone loves us, we need to love ourselves. Before sharing our lives, we need to be happy with our current lives.

If we look for love not to feel alone, you will not be loving, but you would be in need.
If you love because you need, that is not love, but codependency.
If you can detach from a relationship at any moment, but you still want to be there, you have made a decision, and you know that you have chosen using your free will. Need and attachment takes out our freedom to love.

If you need someone because you love him, instead of loving him because you need him, you are truly loving.
You have decided to share your life, not just jump into arms that you want to become a lifesaver.