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ellie · 09-06-2008, 07:17 AM

Hmm yeah I've had that energy happen to me too with a work colleague. It ended with her confronting me, although I honestly don't believe what she claimed. She was just a dick, with control issues. The one thing I regret is not giving her a "what for", rather than me apologising for something that I know I didn't do. Especially, as day in and day out she would be quite rude to me and not include me in things, when I explained that to her, she didn't care and there was no apology from her, which shows a lot.

Still gets to me, but I've got to the point where I have let it go and learnt from the experience. It's actually made me a lot wiser to be honest and now I know to always go with my gut instinct.

09-06-2008, 07:17 AM	#8 (permalink)
ellie Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 753	Hmm yeah I've had that energy happen to me too with a work colleague. It ended with her confronting me, although I honestly don't believe what she claimed. She was just a dick, with control issues. The one thing I regret is not giving her a "what for", rather than me apologising for something that I know I didn't do. Especially, as day in and day out she would be quite rude to me and not include me in things, when I explained that to her, she didn't care and there was no apology from her, which shows a lot. Still gets to me, but I've got to the point where I have let it go and learnt from the experience. It's actually made me a lot wiser to be honest and now I know to always go with my gut instinct. Last edited by ellie; 09-06-2008 at 07:20 AM.