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Originally Posted by Mark Lapierre  A focus on and experience of more acceptable forms of sexual stimulation would be likely to reduce the appeal of underage girls. Maybe not completely, but at least enough to further reduce the guilt you feel because of any lingering attraction, and though it hopefully isn't relevant, it could also reduce any small chance of acting on the attraction in a way that could hurt someone. And if the guilt continues to bother you there is always the option of professional help, the acceptance of which is in no way a confirmation that there's anything mentally wrong with you. |
I don't understand. Why would I try to avoid the appeal of underage girls? Its like I would be fighting the truth. Telling myself something isn't appealing when I know it is? If you like the taste of Pepsi, now your challenge would be I want you to not like the taste of Pepsi. How would you do such a thing? Wouldn't a better approach be "It is possible for underage girls to be sexually appealing, and I'm going to accept this fact rather than fight it."
**I have never had the urge or nor would I EVER act upon something like this. I would not feel the way I do if I wanted to act on it. Many sexual offenders do not feel bad for their intentions or actions, this is why the majority are repeat offenders.
Thanks.