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Fullcrum · 09-03-2008, 09:50 PM

Instead of asking for proof, look at results.

Matt's results seem believeable because I've seen men and know of people who live a lifestyle like what he's talking about.

I don't really know what's evolutionary or whatnot, and it doesn't really matter.

Anxiety can be overcome.

I wouldn't take advice from someone who's not living the lifestyle and gets the results I want. Why should we? Do we listen to fat nutritionists on how to eat and live? No. Do we listen to evolutionary biologists without girlfriends or with relationship problems about what gets girls? No. They aren't devalued as people: they just don't get results.

So there is absolutely no offence when we choose to listen to the viewpoint, mindsets, etc. of someone with abundance with women as opposed to someone with mild anxiety. It's not like we don't listen to the person with anxiety - in fact we should listen closely because any one of us could have been in those circumstances given a different past. However, we don't go to them for advice, or mindsets, or beliefs.

Remember, we are all doing the best we can. So look at the people with the results and reserve your judgement of their character for later.

09-03-2008, 09:50 PM	#105 (permalink)
Fullcrum Family Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 1,094	Instead of asking for proof, look at results. Matt's results seem believeable because I've seen men and know of people who live a lifestyle like what he's talking about. I don't really know what's evolutionary or whatnot, and it doesn't really matter. Anxiety can be overcome. I wouldn't take advice from someone who's not living the lifestyle and gets the results I want. Why should we? Do we listen to fat nutritionists on how to eat and live? No. Do we listen to evolutionary biologists without girlfriends or with relationship problems about what gets girls? No. They aren't devalued as people: they just don't get results. So there is absolutely no offence when we choose to listen to the viewpoint, mindsets, etc. of someone with abundance with women as opposed to someone with mild anxiety. It's not like we don't listen to the person with anxiety - in fact we should listen closely because any one of us could have been in those circumstances given a different past. However, we don't go to them for advice, or mindsets, or beliefs. Remember, we are all doing the best we can. So look at the people with the results and reserve your judgement of their character for later.