Thanks for your reply robertanthony. I have been fully aware of some of the negative impacts that this could have. I am cognizant that there are three of us in the game and each of us stands to get hurt. That is a chance that one has to be willing to take sometimes.I know though that by letting them figure out where their relationship is going to go and not being involved in any other way other than the present circumstances dictate that it is a win win situation and that no matter what I will be fine and so will they.
How is it a win win? well I win because I am being the person that I want to be by letting them figure this out. If they stay together, then obviously she has come to a point where she is happy and that is all I want for her.. outcome is not important here. Certainly if the situation were to arise where she and I could be together, then I would give it some serious consideration with the circumstances on the ground at that point. I do want to be with her, but it is not imperative... The time we have spent together and the growth that she and I have experienced as a direct result of knowing each other and caring for one another is already one of bigger victories in personal growth of my life. No one knows what the future will bring, NO one. Thanks again for your comment.
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