From similar personal experiences, it probably wont matter what anyone tells you. Nor what you do because you wont know what to do.
One moment you feel A is right, next B, next C, next maybe Q and they might even sneak into the game without you even asking for it.
Even if you think you know what to do the confused feelings will linger on meaning the outcome will probably be determined by circumstances beyond your control because what's in control of you now is your feelings and emotions (as was mine).
So, enjoy it while it lasts. It will tire, daze, confuse you the complications and drama will only escalate the longer this drama enfolds & you'll want to hide in a corner and get swallowed up into a big hole.
Besides grey hairs, a couple of abortions (my life's biggest regret), my confusion ended fortunately. With a marriage and a beautiful child. Hope your does too.
Even if you don't go Cold Turkey the good news is it will end.
much blessings and hope it will end soon enough : )
Last edited by philm; 09-03-2008 at 09:42 AM.