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Blair · 09-03-2008, 12:28 AM

Hi I am a new user her, but have been lurking around for a while. I have a situation which I do know that I am doing the right thing, but wanted to get some tips on coping with it.
I am in love with a friend of mine who is married. She told her husband that she has feelings for me ( he had already suspected this anyway)... and they have been talking about divorce for a while now....I know that I have to let them be for right now and try to figure this out. I also know that I cannot have any expectations about outcomes or anything like this. I have been very patient up to this point and will continue to do that, This does not mean that this has been at all easy to cope with and I really just wanted to have people share their stories or opinions about being in this situation. neither one of us planned for this to happen... It just did... I thought it might remedy itself, but it has not..no, it just grows...

09-03-2008, 12:28 AM	#1 (permalink)
Blair Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 10	Loving friends wife Hi I am a new user her, but have been lurking around for a while. I have a situation which I do know that I am doing the right thing, but wanted to get some tips on coping with it. I am in love with a friend of mine who is married. She told her husband that she has feelings for me ( he had already suspected this anyway)... and they have been talking about divorce for a while now....I know that I have to let them be for right now and try to figure this out. I also know that I cannot have any expectations about outcomes or anything like this. I have been very patient up to this point and will continue to do that, This does not mean that this has been at all easy to cope with and I really just wanted to have people share their stories or opinions about being in this situation. neither one of us planned for this to happen... It just did... I thought it might remedy itself, but it has not..no, it just grows...