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In a model of dominator and dominated you only may fit any of those two roles.
These roles are the required roles for abuse.
It is a medieval model. A vertical model.

French revolution stated a new model, equality, liberty and fraternity.
A horizontal model.
This model has not been assimilated by many people.

A feasible alternative for a transitional model would be to make people to understand that since they pay taxes they are investors, shareholders.

You invest in your country and president is CEO of the country.
As shareholder who put his money in that investment he has the right to demand profit and dividends, to demand results and to audit and supervise the company by himself if required.

It would be absurd to allow a CEO to have too much spare time, let alone letting him to use that spare time to play worldwide games of power.
Games of power means expenses that are not spend in the main business, which is to provide human welfare to population.

Since we live in a capitalist world, lets make it capitalist.
Citizens are shareholders who demand results to CEO/president, not the opposite.

I have met ambassadors and ministers in my activist work.
I can tell you that they would not treat you like some abusive bosses who are less important people.
You stop being a victim of people when you start auditing those who are making you to be a victim.