A beginning would be to
stop asking to be rescued. Learn from all the advice you get here, but it's up to you to take action. It's important also to keep negativity out of your process of your change. Don't blame others for victimizing you. You must take responsibility for it and not be angry. Don't allow the ego to take control and say, "I'll teach these bastards a lesson." People are wonderful to you if you really believe you yourself truly matter.
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