BenThere,
Perhaps you are trying too hard. I know what this is like when you are mired in your own challenges and you are really trying to change your life. You work really hard and the more you work, the more it seems as though nothing is happening.
If this is possible for you, try to treat this as a game or an experiment. Try to not be so very serious about this.
Try to appreciate what you do have that is working for you. When you start to see who you are as a clever and intelligent person who has things that do work, perhaps you can begin to see more positivity and possibilities and opportunities to grow and to succeed. Do not get mired in negativity; this will certainly drown you.
Be careful who you hang with. If you hang with people who are always looking at the half empty instead of the half full glass, you will never getfar enough out of the negativity vortex to help yourself.
Remember that while people can assist you and even offer some good guidance, its is ultimately upto you. This means that there is no one keeping you down. You are in control of your own thoughts and possibilities (see the intention and manifestation contributions). And though some may not agree, it is how you think and see yourself that will untimately determine who you are and who you will grow to be.
Hope this helps...
TIK
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