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Originally Posted by moonrambler I think it is all well and good to think positively . . . but what about all the people who don't get the money they need when they need it?
Isn't there a way of looking at this subject without denying that often it doesn't work out the way it is being professed here?
It's like we come to a point where it's said: don't worry, there'll always be food/shelter/clothing right at the moment we need it -- even if this means we're living on the street and totally destitute. Even then, we still have soup kitchens, a bed in a shelter (or at least a tent on a heat grate), and free clothing from the Salvation Army.
Marinik mentioned the thread Noise, and this is part of what I mean by Noise. Some of us absolutely without a single doubt need to get out of this mindset of "Oh, something will happen to get us out of this mess." Some of us have lived like this for a long time and have just made a bigger and bigger mess. Some of us truly need to learn how to get ourselves out of a mess we created, without always being confident that money will "appear" out of the blue. What about all the people for whom this money doesn't just "appear"? |
Well at one point I was there where you are saying most of the people are, I made a mess out of my finances and then I met my husband and he helped me get out of that hole. Saying it is sitting and waiting to clear (the mess) by it self is not what I meant. I have done the best in everything I did not worrying about money. It -the money- came as the consequence of my giving the most I could to everybody and into everything I did. But if you are paralyzed by the fear and repeat the same old habits and actions you are going to be in the same mess all the time.