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Originally Posted by SmartAlx  The thing is, people that I meet, those who would get along with never get a chance to find out how compatible we are. There is one girl who just entered our group, via meeting me. Interesting... I always bring new people to the group and the group always takes over our relationship. She and I are EXTREMELY similar, same values, same beliefs, same personality, even both Architects, yet she doesn't know it because all of the loud and boisterous people are so much fun and I just sink into the shadows. The loud and boisterous people are very quick to add new people to the group and make them come out of THEIR shell, but they ignore me now and get in the way of the new people finding out about me.
I know what you are thinking. Don't bring the new girl into the group. The group are my friends, so why wouldn't I want them meeting? And secondly, since I am quiet and don't know what to say (do you remember this story I told you about the beautiful guys only getting one date because they are boring?) there is NO way that I would get these compatible people into my life at all. I tried to get this one girl to come to church. She said no... to me. But she did go to church with US yesterday, because the boisterous guy asked her.
Why are you all so quick to make me dump my best friends??? |
One of the hardest things to change is thousands of years of female mating preferences. Either do what it takes to learn what women find attractive or find really desperate women.
People aren't going to change to meet your expectations. It's all up to you.