Hmmmm. You know what SmartAlx? I think you are in fact a very good conversationalist. I think you are just trying to talk to the wrong people.
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*Especially with the girls. Guys are shallow in that they want a hot girl. Girls are shallow in that they want a funny guy.
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What is this? I'm not shallow. I find that guys who can't be serious are annoying. Sure I like to laugh. I also like to have the occasional deeper conversation. Not all men are shallow either. Trust me, if they only want the hot girl...well, do you assume then that any man who's wife or girlfriend is only mildly attractive to have "settled" for her.
You got a ton of feedback on your post. Start with that. You have something to say. You are interesting. And funny. (Didn't I tell you that it surprises me sometimes when I make people laugh?)
You know what struck me about your posts in this thread? I had the impression that you were in high school. The impression that you were required to spend time with people that you don't really like. That you
think they're having a better life than you, so you want to be like them.
Then it finally sunk in. Wait! did he say 35 years? Dude. Find a different place to hang.
Someone in this thread suggested joining clubs/groups. Craigslist has several opportunities listed.