Do what you like to do that involves people. If you're an introvert and like to read all the time, join a book club. Actually, you could just keep joining groups and clubs of whatever, it doesn't even have to be anything related to things that you enjoy doing. The more interaction the better. You can always quit and even if you burn some bridges it doesn't matter. It's not like you say the wrong thing and then people are going to hunt you down. On the other hand, with this "group/club hopping" you might find something you like in a certain activity that you never knew you would like about it.
I also find that phrase "you have to be funny" hilarious. You don't "have" to do anything to be happy. And that's what it's more about, being happy, than being more social. If you were happy all the time, would you care so much about being good with people? Probably not. Clarify what you really want.
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